I really don't have a type. I feel like I could be attracted to anyone physically, as long as the vibe is right. I get all gooey for someone who can make me laugh and keep me interested in a conversation. For me, it is really more about someone's personality, sense of humor, intelligence, world view, vibe, etc. than it is about what they look like.
I've had serious relationships with very different people. I prefer to hook up with people I can be friends with. Someone who I think is fun to hang out with, someone who I share some basic interests with. It hasn't always worked out that way lol but that is what I prefer.
For more serious relationships I do have higher standards now, I used to not. I would now look for someone who shares the same worldview as me, has the same sense of humor as me, someone who is smart and has something they are involved in or working towards. I know that sounds vague lol but I think those are basic things most people should strive for in a long term relationship, and you can decide what those things mean to you. Obviously, they would have to be okay with what I do. Well, more than okay, they would need to be fully supportive and want to help me thrive. I would never stop doing what I do because of someone I'm dating. I love what I've built for my fans and for myself.
Tall, handsome in the face, does theater, kinda feminine, talented, would sing in the car with me, was kinda obsessed with me in a sweet way, smartie, cheated on me (9 mos*)
Short, tattooed, wrestler, mean to me in a negging way, family oriented, popular, smoked weed with him for the first time, crazy s*x, goal driven, also cheated on me (2+ years*)
Average, heavily tattooed, stretched ears, snowboarder/skateboarder, loser, smokes cigs/weed, listens to my favorite music, had a cool face, car guy (derogatory), mentally unstable, dumb, probably cheated on me with his whack ex (1 year)
Average to Tall, got tattooed because of me, extremely hot, beautiful face/hair/skin, probably cared way too much about his body, never wanted to f*ck (???), didn't smoke, went to lots of parties, girlies were all over him all the time (positive), would DM girlies without me knowing (negative), rich family, dumb as bricks but went to college (2+ years*)
*slept with them after we broke up